Please don’t laugh when I tell you this story. It’s not really funny, it’s sad and ironic but it’s the reality for many.
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About a couple of weeks ago… I was getting ready to fly to Florida for the Live
The Dream event.
It’s about midnight, and I was still packing my bag. I had to be at the airport at 5:30 am.
Shower… check
Suitcase… zipped
Doorbell??? Not expecting that one…
“Who can be in this late hour? I am not expecting anyone, and people don’t show up
at my door unannounced like that at midnight.”
You see I’m currently staying in a 6 floor building, the common what we call “block” in
Bulgaria built during the Soviet union kind of old building. And let’s just say the isolation of the walls can feel like a Chinese torture chamber.
So I open the door, and whom do I see – An angry looking woman in her PJ’s, my neighbor from the top floor. She starts yelling at me furiously, “I am tired of this circus. Your house is like a “wh*re house”… (literally she said that) I hear all this moaning every
night… it’s unacceptable… I have to go to work tomorrow and I can’t fall asleep.”
“Hmm, wow… moaning… what is this woman talking about?” I was in shock a little bit, because there was no noise that I could hear myself, and I was in the actual apartment.
She was either crazy or some of the other neighbors were just making “nicee nice” with
each other if you know what I mean? 
I politely excused myself and sent her off and started thinking…
Wow, a while back, I would have probably gotten myself all wrapped up in the drama of this lady, probably would have started fighting with her and would have consumed my
time, thoughts, energy for maybe even days to come, sharing this story with friends,
complaining about the woman, maybe even making some actual real noise, to get her
even more pissed off for knocking on the wrong door. You get it.
But not now!
I now know what the consequences for allowing that sort of energy into my life are.
You see, this is called drama… and most people try to drag you into their drama so
they are not miserable alone. Miserable, although the ego deep inside is quite satisfied and that’s why it’s hard to let go of the drama, unless you become highly aware of what’s happening and how much automatic the response to run toward drama has become over the years.
Just think about it… Do you have people in your life who constantly live for the drama
and try to involve others in it too?
I know some and I tend to stray away from them. Some are very easily identified… they
are always dealing with something… flat tire, somebody broke their house window,
they are always in some sort of pain, they are always late for work, dealing with some
sort of disease, etc., etc.
Unfortunately, the majority of our society lives in their daily personal drama, they live FOR the drama.
But if you are in business, and you consider yourself an entrepreneur I highly encourage
you to become alert and aware of whether you’ve got your “daily drama pattern” on. I am serious!
Drama is ok for people with a J.O.B, especially if they hate it. Hey maybe it’s
even good for them, it keeps them entertained, and distracted from their miserable reality of doing something that they don’t love. Just playing…
Drama isn’t good for anyone.
It’s just a beautiful way to keep yourself distracted from what truly matters.
Maybe you don’t knock on your neighbors door trying to pick a fight, or have a black
cloud following you around type of drama always raining on you.
But here is some of the drama that I see many entrepreneurs get involved in, and I’ve
Done it plenty of times…
Let’s call it mindset drama… negative chatter, or should I say limiting beliefs and excuses.
Let’s be honest, these are just pure laziness in disguise. But sometimes they are
legit. I shouldn’t say legit, but more so habitual thoughts that just need a little
bit more consistent effort and desire to get rid of.
Some of my “drama” or limiting beliefs in the past have been telling myself “I am not
confident, I am not good at connecting with people, or I am not a good writer, I am not
good on the phone, I don’t feel confident in teaching others and creating my own products, or I am not a good presenter, I am scared of getting on a webinar, I won’t
succeed”… etc., etc.
I am sure that if you haven’t obtained the success you want in your business, you most
likely have some of these or similar limiting beliefs. Similar drama that goes on in your
mind, that most likely attracts real tangible drama in your life that keeps you away and
prevents you from taking real results-producing action.
This is real simple stuff if you think about it and break it down to the core of where
inaction and distraction come from.
The challenge is that sometimes it’s very subtle, it goes on in our subconscious mind
very quietly, you could hardly hear it… and that’s why you must truly LISTEN.
Now, I know you’re like me if you are still reading this email and you don’t want to
keep being stuck.
All the time, you think about a way out of the misery and anguish you put yourself in every single day, that prevents you from taking action toward achieving that financial
freedom and happiness you want in your life.
I want you to get unstuck and join thehundreds of conscious entrepreneurs who are
moving forward and achieving success after success every single day.
And so I’ve put together with my collaboration partner Glenn Arcaro, something special for you that I think you’ll enjoy very much, because it is your golden ticket to success, if you choose to grab it that is.
We are holding a live webinar this Thursday with Mr. Mark Hoverson.
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Mark is an 8-figure entrepreneur who’s lived in some of the worse situations you could be in, VERY nurturing to drama… like living in a trailer with pregnant wife and young kids, qualifying for welfare, car breaking down in the middle of highway… etc. etc.
But now he’s seeing some of the best… he somehow learned to immune himself, vaccinate himself against drama and reach the levels of success he desired and is still going strong.
On a side note: once you get on a new pattern and in a momentum you’ll be set, it’s just how it works.
Come create these new patterns with us:
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We’re going to be going with Mark over some of the fundamentals that you as an entrepreneur must be focusing on to get yourself out of whatever internal and/or
external drama you’re living in right now, that’s blocking you from success.
This will be action oriented call. You got to take action if you want to see changes. You
have to start doing things differently, if you want to see different results.
Mark, Glenn and I will show you exactly what actions you must take in order to see the
results you are looking for in business.
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So block the drama for an hour this Thursday at 6pm PST and come with a completely open mind!
Join us at this link…
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Know that there is a way out… You don’t have to keep being stuck.
How much do you really want it? Success?
Freedom? Happiness?
Just come and grab it, it’s yours.
See you at this link on Thursday, 6pm PST…
Grab your seat right now and come in on a few minutes early as it’ll be a full house.
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To Your Success,
Didi
